Love Many, Trust Few, Harm None

10 May 2021 – Today, I heard an elderly gentleman say he lives his life by this quote, “Love Many, Trust Few, Harm None.” What a great mantra. It incorporates the laws and lessons taught in the Bible along with the cynicism that comes through life experience. I think I have done a good job of living into this throughout my life, especially over the last ten years. Some parts are easier than others.

Harm None. Not hurting others on purpose is the easiest part of this. Most of us do not wish harm on anyone else. We don’t always wish blessings on others, but we don’t want them to be hurt or marginalized. We are all moved with emotion when others are hurt by tragedy or by starving children. Our human hearts make it hard not to care about others. We give to charities that support cancer and children’s hospitals. We do mission work for the less fortunate, and we donate food to food pantries. We can always do more, and we should do more, but at least we are usually good about doing our part. We sometimes hurt others accidentally. Other times we hurt others because we are trying to protect ourselves, but we don’t usually harm on purpose.

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Love Many. I focus every day on loving others with all that I am. I love hard. Every person I meet I greet with an open heart. I give all that I am to every situation. A stranger immediately becomes an extension of my world. I want them to be happy, and I am willing to share all that I have. I only know how to love with all of my heart. As soon as I meet someone and get to know them, I find a connection. I am not saying that I like everyone I meet or even want to be their friend, but I definitely want the best for them. I add them to my prayer list. Love comes easily for most of us. We meet new people, and we allow them into our lives. Every friend we have, everyone we love, was once a stranger.

Trust Few. Life experience teaches us to be careful. As children, we trust everyone until we are told not to. As we get older and we experience things, we learn more about who we can trust and who we can’t. Sometimes individuals act in a way that makes us question their integrity. Sometimes an individual can challenge our trust too many times and make us realize that we can no longer trust them. The more people challenge our trust, the more cynical we become and the less likely we are to trust anyone. We must trust some, or we will live a very isolated life. It is unfortunate that we can’t trust everyone, but life has taught me that if I trust everyone, I will be burned.

Love Many. Trust Few. Harm None.